The Veteran’s Administration.
And that’s just here in the United States. If we look around the world, the list becomes too long to enumerate.
At first glance, one would ask if the organization itself is inherently bad. I suppose arguments could be made both for and against. Perhaps laws need to be passed to help improve the situation.
Oh wait, wouldn’t that require a governmental, law-making system that worked?
And that just proves the point.
Was there a time when these entities did function appropriately? Continue reading Why are our organizations failing?
My constitutional rights.
We hear it often when people are demonstrating. They are angry that their rights have been abused or trampled on.
And they should be.
People who don’t fight for their rights tend to lose them.
But I did a little research to see just what those rights were. I found that there is a pretty extensive list of our constitutional rights.
But not all the rights that we hear people shouting “That’s my right!” were listed. We’ve made some pretty liberal jumps in assuming what we actually do and do not have as a constitutional right.
On the same document of constitutional rights, I found it interesting that there was also a list of duties. These rights we keep shouting about don’t come alone; they are accompanied by responsibilities. Continue reading “It is time to defend not so much human rights as human obligations” – Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn
Have you ever settled for less than what you wanted, or expected, or thought you deserved?
I’m sincerely afraid that is exactly what Ann did when she consented to spend the rest of her life with me. I think she’d like her deposit back.
I, on the other hand, clearly got the best end of that deal. I have so much more than I deserve.
But I won’t give any of it back – for anything. She’s stuck with me.
We’ve talked with our kids about their future mates and what are things that would be non-negotiable in choosing “the one.”
What is, or was, on your list?
If I go back to my teenage years, I had a pretty definite picture in mind of what my future wife would be. I’m sure that dancing and loving fashion and a high powered job and being drop-dead gorgeous were on the list.
Well, I did get drop-dead gorgeous.
I guess the question is, did I settle? Continue reading How do we settle on that which we settle?
Regret: To feel sorry for something: to feel sorry and sad about something previously done or said that now appears wrong, mistaken, or hurtful to others.
Isn’t there a song that laments “regrets, I’ve got a few”? Unless you have lived pretty much a perfect life, you have things that you wish you could change or do over.
There was a classmate who was teased in grade school and made to cry. This was back in the wonderful period when parents called each other about things their children had done. And it was in the time that the parent dealt with the child and taught them to do right and not wrong. I remember clearly my mother coming up the stairs and talking to me about it. I will never forget the disappointment on her face when I denied it.
I regret both doing the teasing, and then lying to my mother about it.
I remember to this day the look on a wonderful person’s face, who was also a wonderful friend, when I made a snotty comment in junior high about her clothes. It still haunts me at 47. Who did I think I was?
I will always regret that.
Is that bad? Continue reading Should we regret our regrets?
Depending on the day, I can be known to enjoy some of the news channels. It isn’t too hard for me to get pulled into the story. Pretty soon as I putter around the house I am talking out loud, presenting my side of the argument and anticipating possible responses.
Some days, however, I have to just turn off the news and escape all the rhetoric and fighting. When I get to where I can almost anticipate before the person answers just what sound bites will come out, having had their party affiliation posted across the bottom of the screen, I know it is time to step back.
Often, they don’t even answer the question they have been asked, opting instead to just jump right into the prepared statement that defends their position and demeans the opposing side.
I guess it makes good content for the networks and the advertisers must love it. If it didn’t make money, we can be sure it wouldn’t continue to happen.
If it makes for good content and the advertisers love it, then that must mean that we are eating it up and supporting it.
I wonder why? Continue reading Liberation through legislation?