This is part of a series of letters to those who may feel lost. Sometimes when we are down, discovering something in the mailbox is just the thing.
It reminds us that we aren’t as alone as we think.
Today I write to the friends and family of a man I call Jack who is attracted to the same sex. Well-meaning though they may be, they probably don’t understand how much pain they can cause.
It’s time to stop it.
And replace it with what Jack does need.
Dear Jack’s friends and family,
You know Jack: hard working, good looking, always ready to help you out.
My guess is that you sincerely want to help, and offer encouragement as often as possible.
You just need to be careful that your encouragement isn’t discouraging.